Casestudy 1
NB: Feedback will be appreciatedThey are married. They have two children.
The husband cheats on his wife. He is seeing someone else.
The wife comes to know of it.
The husband realizes the wife knows.
The wife never asks for confrontation instead she accepts it.
So now they both know about it.
Question:
What should the husband do?
posted by Amrita @ 9:34 AM
6 Comments:
Confession of adultery and reason behind it should be discussed and rest should be left on wife's decision which should be taken as abiding.
The most important question would be why did the husband do, what he did?
if you are a woman activist of some kind read on this one
the wife should think more about what she should do!! it is she who didn't do things right at some point of time that has caused the husband to take these actions... which now she claims as cheating!
Her biggest confrontation, her biggest challenge is not to keep quite and judge what the husband says but is to go out and solve the problem, take a lead and make the husband speak out on "why" he did what did??
~cheers
There are three things the husband can do:
1) Either ask for a divorce and walk out of the relationship, since its tough to sail in two boats at a time. But he should pay all the compensations in this case.
2) If the husband feels that, he's done a big mistake, he should be confess his guilt and mend his ways.
3) If the husband is tactful, intelligent and rich enough, he could continue to have two families. This is a very ideal case and hypothetical assumption, which is good to watch in movies and soaps only :-D.
Since its tough to break the deep rooted family ties and the wife in this situation is gracious enough to forgive, I am in favour of the second choice above.
The husband should grant the freedom to wife
anchal = BINGO!!!
anonymous - I am not a woman activist
ak - lol @ 3rd choice
wats the need - freedom...but what makes you think the wife is bounded by the husband?
"The wife never asks for confrontation instead she accepts it."
Now when the abovementioned has happened, the husband knows he's in control of situation.
Best case scenario: (Husband with a conscience)
The husband is filled with remorse and decides to shower his wife with love and what not.
Worst case scenario:
Cheating is no more cheating and the husband is openly doing things now. The wife is reduced to a mere formality and the relationship to a mere token.
Since you ask what should the husband do, a righteous husband should go for the above best case scenario and leave the rest to wifee.
-Delhi Guy in Bombay
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